The very first thing I thought when I found out is that I wanted an abortion. That night I did some research and got the process under way. A day later I was in the clinic having my first appointment. I was scared--not by what I was going to do, but how people would treat me. To my relief everyone was understanding and didn't make me feel uncomfortable or judged at all.

The abortion itself was quick and a little painful. It was about 5 minutes for the actual abortion but I was at the clinic for about 3 hours. The cramps were like a bad period. The experience was made much easier with my husband there holding my hand even though he was very nervous as he always is when in any doctors office. The doctor explained everything and I felt like she really cared about how I felt.

I am still scared about one thing - if people find out. I know I would be judged and although this was our decision to make, I know many people would feel I have done something wrong. While this notion still haunts me, I trust that if anyone did find out they wouldn't be a worthy friend if they judged me for a choice that will not be regretted. I had an abortion, and I am not sorry.