I am 18 years old and just recently had a medical abortion. I was dating my boyfriend for about a year and had been on various birth control methods (pills, nuva ring, etc.) While taking seasonale I noticed mood swings and depression that started to interfere with my normal life. I decided I would take a month off birth control while a found a new method. Unfortunately, I got pregnant. I realized that I should have gotten my period. I didn't notice any huge physically differences, but I just knew. One morning I went to Planned Parenthood to get a test, which came back positive. I have always been pro-choice but never imaged myself in a situation where I would need an abortion. It was an easy decision to make. Although I wondered what it would be like to have a full pregnancy, I never considered doing it. I was very early when I found out (about 4 weeks) and decided I would have a medical abortion. My boyfriend was supportive, going to the appointment with me and helping me financially. After having an ultrasound and blood tests they determined I would have to wait another week (to make sure it was not an ectopic pregnancy). After inserting the 4 pills, I miscarried within a few hours. The cramps were worse than most periods, but by later that night I felt fine. It was much easier than I thought it would be. I felt guilty about being irresponsible, but not about getting an abortion. I have plans to finish college and go to graduate school and nothing should prevent me from doing that. I am not in any way ready to have a child. I think would be selfish to have a child before I am emotionally ready and can provide them with all the necessary care. I KNOW this is the best decision I could have made and that I did the right thing. I'm not sorry!
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