I had an abortion last week, and I keep waiting to feel the sadness or guilt that my anti-choice friends say women have afterward, but I don't. My experience with the women's clinic was wonderful, everyone I came in contact with was calm, supportive, and non-judgmental. During the actual abortion, a nurse stood right next to me the entire time, coaching me to take deep breaths and stay relaxed and explaining everything the doctor was doing and letting me know as we went what sensations to expect. Following the procedure, I was helped into a recliner in the recovery area and once the cramps subsided I felt fine. A nurse there explained in detail what I could expect my body to experience in the coming weeks, and I know the clinic is available if I have concerns.
The friends I chose to tell of my decision were extremely supportive, and I can only say I have felt relief in the week since. Physically my energy is back, and emotionally the stress and depression I have felt since learning I was pregnant is gone. Thank you for giving us a chance to share our good experiences!
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